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    <title>SIWIKE “Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier”: the podcast - Episodes Tagged with “Adulting”</title>
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    <description>A companion to the book: SIWIKE “Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier”: how to unlock your career potential https://amzn.to/2LEF52R 
Hosted by Luki Danukarjanto http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu 
Sharing insights and learning about jobs (search, resumes, interviews, networking), careers (purpose, promotions, wealth) and life (fulfillment, health, wisdom)
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    <itunes:subtitle>SIWIKE “Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier”: the podcast - what you didn’t know you needed to know about jobs, careers and life </itunes:subtitle>
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    <itunes:summary>A companion to the book: SIWIKE “Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier”: how to unlock your career potential https://amzn.to/2LEF52R 
Hosted by Luki Danukarjanto http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu 
Sharing insights and learning about jobs (search, resumes, interviews, networking), careers (purpose, promotions, wealth) and life (fulfillment, health, wisdom)
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  <title>Self Advocacy, Dealing with Adversity, Adulting (All 3 mini-sodes in 1!) - Ellie Kubisz EK-003  MENTOR CORNER</title>
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  <itunes:subtitle>This episode of the SIWIKE podcast is split into 3 minisodes where Luki and Ellie discuss Self Advocacy, Dealing with Adversity and Adulting. They talk about their self advocacy experiences, reaching out to others, finding what lights a fire inside of you and much more. If you're someone looking to learn more about self advocacy, dealing with adversity and adulting, this is the perfect video for you!</itunes:subtitle>
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  <description>Self Advocacy, Dealing with Adversity, Adulting: Ellie Kubisz SIWIKE Podcast EK 003 Mentor Corner
This episode of the SIWIKE podcast is thr COMBINED set of 3 minisodes where Luki and Ellie discuss Self Advocacy, Dealing with Adversity and Adulting. They talk about their self advocacy experiences, reaching out to others, finding what lights a fire inside of you and much more. If you're someone looking to learn more about self advocacy, dealing with adversity and adulting, this is the perfect video for you!
We speak about:
01:07 - Minisode 1: Self-Advocacy
02:00 - Saying "no" to people
03:12 - Self advocacy experiences
05:34 - Setting boundaries
08:45 - Voicing your opinion
14:30 - Minisode 2: Dealing with Adversity 
15:07 - Personal relationships
17:40 - Reaching out when life becomes overwhelming
19:43 - Journaling
23:15 - Seeing the good in situations
28:40 - Minisode 3: Adulting
30:46 - Self-awareness
32:11 - Want vs need
33:59 - Life lessons
35:14 - Finding what lights a fire inside of you 
39:35 - Becoming a lifelong learner
Connect with Ellie at https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/
Listen to the episode for more details!
Watch the episode here https://youtu.be/MeO9fvTZqxI
Special thanks to https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/ for the theme music
Want more personalized career coaching or to connect with Luki:
http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu
http://focusinspired.com
http://instagram.com/lukidanu
http://twitter.com/lukidanu
Get SIWIKE Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier: How to unlock your career potential here
https://amzn.to/2LEF52R
 Special Guest: Ellie Kubisz.
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    <![CDATA[<p>Self Advocacy, Dealing with Adversity, Adulting: Ellie Kubisz SIWIKE Podcast EK 003 Mentor Corner</p>

<p>This episode of the SIWIKE podcast is thr COMBINED set of 3 minisodes where Luki and Ellie discuss Self Advocacy, Dealing with Adversity and Adulting. They talk about their self advocacy experiences, reaching out to others, finding what lights a fire inside of you and much more. If you&#39;re someone looking to learn more about self advocacy, dealing with adversity and adulting, this is the perfect video for you!</p>

<p>We speak about:<br>
01:07 - Minisode 1: Self-Advocacy<br>
02:00 - Saying &quot;no&quot; to people<br>
03:12 - Self advocacy experiences<br>
05:34 - Setting boundaries<br>
08:45 - Voicing your opinion</p>

<p>14:30 - Minisode 2: Dealing with Adversity <br>
15:07 - Personal relationships<br>
17:40 - Reaching out when life becomes overwhelming<br>
19:43 - Journaling<br>
23:15 - Seeing the good in situations</p>

<p>28:40 - Minisode 3: Adulting<br>
30:46 - Self-awareness<br>
32:11 - Want vs need<br>
33:59 - Life lessons<br>
35:14 - Finding what lights a fire inside of you <br>
39:35 - Becoming a lifelong learner</p>

<p>Connect with Ellie at <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/</a></p>

<p>Listen to the episode for more details!<br>
Watch the episode here <a href="https://youtu.be/MeO9fvTZqxI" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/MeO9fvTZqxI</a></p>

<p>Special thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/</a> for the theme music</p>

<p>Want more personalized career coaching or to connect with Luki:<br>
<a href="http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://focusinspired.com" rel="nofollow">http://focusinspired.com</a><br>
<a href="http://instagram.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://instagram.com/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://twitter.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://twitter.com/lukidanu</a></p>

<p>Get SIWIKE Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier: How to unlock your career potential here<br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2LEF52R" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/2LEF52R</a></p><p>Special Guest: Ellie Kubisz.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Self Advocacy, Dealing with Adversity, Adulting: Ellie Kubisz SIWIKE Podcast EK 003 Mentor Corner</p>

<p>This episode of the SIWIKE podcast is thr COMBINED set of 3 minisodes where Luki and Ellie discuss Self Advocacy, Dealing with Adversity and Adulting. They talk about their self advocacy experiences, reaching out to others, finding what lights a fire inside of you and much more. If you&#39;re someone looking to learn more about self advocacy, dealing with adversity and adulting, this is the perfect video for you!</p>

<p>We speak about:<br>
01:07 - Minisode 1: Self-Advocacy<br>
02:00 - Saying &quot;no&quot; to people<br>
03:12 - Self advocacy experiences<br>
05:34 - Setting boundaries<br>
08:45 - Voicing your opinion</p>

<p>14:30 - Minisode 2: Dealing with Adversity <br>
15:07 - Personal relationships<br>
17:40 - Reaching out when life becomes overwhelming<br>
19:43 - Journaling<br>
23:15 - Seeing the good in situations</p>

<p>28:40 - Minisode 3: Adulting<br>
30:46 - Self-awareness<br>
32:11 - Want vs need<br>
33:59 - Life lessons<br>
35:14 - Finding what lights a fire inside of you <br>
39:35 - Becoming a lifelong learner</p>

<p>Connect with Ellie at <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/</a></p>

<p>Listen to the episode for more details!<br>
Watch the episode here <a href="https://youtu.be/MeO9fvTZqxI" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/MeO9fvTZqxI</a></p>

<p>Special thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/</a> for the theme music</p>

<p>Want more personalized career coaching or to connect with Luki:<br>
<a href="http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://focusinspired.com" rel="nofollow">http://focusinspired.com</a><br>
<a href="http://instagram.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://instagram.com/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://twitter.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://twitter.com/lukidanu</a></p>

<p>Get SIWIKE Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier: How to unlock your career potential here<br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2LEF52R" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/2LEF52R</a></p><p>Special Guest: Ellie Kubisz.</p>]]>
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  <title>Adulting - self awareness and life lessons (Minisode 3) - Ellie Kubisz EK-003C MENTOR CORNER</title>
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  <itunes:subtitle>On this episode of the SIWIKE podcast Luki and Ellie discuss Adulting. They talk about self-awareness, life lessons and finding what lights a fire inside of you. If you're someone looking to learn more about adulting or is struggling with adulting, this is the perfect video for you!
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  <itunes:duration>18:50</itunes:duration>
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  <description>Minisode 3 - Adulting: Ellie Kubisz SIWIKE Podcast EK 003C Mentor Corner
On this episode of the SIWIKE podcast Luki and Ellie discuss Adulting. They talk about self-awareness, life lessons and finding what lights a fire inside of you. If you're someone looking to learn more about adulting or is struggling with adulting, this is the perfect video for you!
We speak about:
01:45 - Legal adult vs Functional adult vs Emotional adult
03:21 - Self-awareness
04:46 - Want vs need
06:35 - Life lessons
07:50 - Finding what lights a fire inside of you 
12:10 - Becoming a lifelong learner
Connect with Ellie at https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/
Listen to the episode for more details!
Watch the episode here https://youtu.be/20lGgSJIoGI
Special thanks to https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/ for the theme music
Want more personalized career coaching or to connect with Luki:
http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu
http://focusinspired.com
http://instagram.com/lukidanu
http://twitter.com/lukidanu
Get SIWIKE Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier: How to unlock your career potential here
https://amzn.to/2LEF52R Special Guest: Ellie Kubisz.
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    <![CDATA[<p>Minisode 3 - Adulting: Ellie Kubisz SIWIKE Podcast EK 003C Mentor Corner</p>

<p>On this episode of the SIWIKE podcast Luki and Ellie discuss Adulting. They talk about self-awareness, life lessons and finding what lights a fire inside of you. If you&#39;re someone looking to learn more about adulting or is struggling with adulting, this is the perfect video for you!</p>

<p>We speak about:<br>
01:45 - Legal adult vs Functional adult vs Emotional adult<br>
03:21 - Self-awareness<br>
04:46 - Want vs need<br>
06:35 - Life lessons<br>
07:50 - Finding what lights a fire inside of you <br>
12:10 - Becoming a lifelong learner</p>

<p>Connect with Ellie at <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/</a></p>

<p>Listen to the episode for more details!<br>
Watch the episode here <a href="https://youtu.be/20lGgSJIoGI" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/20lGgSJIoGI</a></p>

<p>Special thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/</a> for the theme music</p>

<p>Want more personalized career coaching or to connect with Luki:<br>
<a href="http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://focusinspired.com" rel="nofollow">http://focusinspired.com</a><br>
<a href="http://instagram.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://instagram.com/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://twitter.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://twitter.com/lukidanu</a></p>

<p>Get SIWIKE Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier: How to unlock your career potential here<br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2LEF52R" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/2LEF52R</a></p><p>Special Guest: Ellie Kubisz.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Minisode 3 - Adulting: Ellie Kubisz SIWIKE Podcast EK 003C Mentor Corner</p>

<p>On this episode of the SIWIKE podcast Luki and Ellie discuss Adulting. They talk about self-awareness, life lessons and finding what lights a fire inside of you. If you&#39;re someone looking to learn more about adulting or is struggling with adulting, this is the perfect video for you!</p>

<p>We speak about:<br>
01:45 - Legal adult vs Functional adult vs Emotional adult<br>
03:21 - Self-awareness<br>
04:46 - Want vs need<br>
06:35 - Life lessons<br>
07:50 - Finding what lights a fire inside of you <br>
12:10 - Becoming a lifelong learner</p>

<p>Connect with Ellie at <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliekubisz/</a></p>

<p>Listen to the episode for more details!<br>
Watch the episode here <a href="https://youtu.be/20lGgSJIoGI" rel="nofollow">https://youtu.be/20lGgSJIoGI</a></p>

<p>Special thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/</a> for the theme music</p>

<p>Want more personalized career coaching or to connect with Luki:<br>
<a href="http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://focusinspired.com" rel="nofollow">http://focusinspired.com</a><br>
<a href="http://instagram.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://instagram.com/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://twitter.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://twitter.com/lukidanu</a></p>

<p>Get SIWIKE Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier: How to unlock your career potential here<br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2LEF52R" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/2LEF52R</a></p><p>Special Guest: Ellie Kubisz.</p>]]>
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  <title>Episode 024: Don't let School get in the way of Education [LIFE]</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2020 14:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
  <author>Luki Danukarjanto</author>
  <enclosure url="https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/9b7cb23c-54f0-4041-947c-a03d5539a6bc/f22a6f6a-fcb2-4d51-9747-5ce52dbe3809.mp3" length="8616646" type="audio/mpeg"/>
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  <itunes:subtitle>"Don't let school get in the way of education" Mark Twain. Definitely, words to take to heart for students and others alike. The focus of school experience is often for grades, assignments, and exams, which are important, though the most meaningful parts of the school experience often take place outside of the classroom. </itunes:subtitle>
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  <description>In your school experience, you'll want to make sure that you do well in your academics and studies. At the same time, you'll want to explore the career possibilities of what your degree can get you, practice your "adulting skills", hone your experience and build meaningful connections.
Listen to the episode for more details!
Special thanks to  https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/ for the theme music
Want more personalized career coaching or to connect with Luki?: 
http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu
http://focusinspired.com
http://instagram.com/lukidanu
http://twitter.com/lukidanu
Get SIWIKE Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier: How to unlock your career potential here
https://amzn.to/2LEF52R
</description>
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    <![CDATA[<p>In your school experience, you&#39;ll want to make sure that you do well in your academics and studies. At the same time, you&#39;ll want to explore the career possibilities of what your degree can get you, practice your &quot;adulting skills&quot;, hone your experience and build meaningful connections.</p>

<p>Listen to the episode for more details!</p>

<p>Special thanks to  <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/</a> for the theme music</p>

<p>Want more personalized career coaching or to connect with Luki?: <br>
<a href="http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://focusinspired.com" rel="nofollow">http://focusinspired.com</a><br>
<a href="http://instagram.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://instagram.com/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://twitter.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://twitter.com/lukidanu</a></p>

<p>Get SIWIKE Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier: How to unlock your career potential here<br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2LEF52R" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/2LEF52R</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>In your school experience, you&#39;ll want to make sure that you do well in your academics and studies. At the same time, you&#39;ll want to explore the career possibilities of what your degree can get you, practice your &quot;adulting skills&quot;, hone your experience and build meaningful connections.</p>

<p>Listen to the episode for more details!</p>

<p>Special thanks to  <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/lincolnalexanderthe2nd/</a> for the theme music</p>

<p>Want more personalized career coaching or to connect with Luki?: <br>
<a href="http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://linkedin.com/in/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://focusinspired.com" rel="nofollow">http://focusinspired.com</a><br>
<a href="http://instagram.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://instagram.com/lukidanu</a><br>
<a href="http://twitter.com/lukidanu" rel="nofollow">http://twitter.com/lukidanu</a></p>

<p>Get SIWIKE Stuff I Wish I Knew Earlier: How to unlock your career potential here<br>
<a href="https://amzn.to/2LEF52R" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/2LEF52R</a></p>]]>
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